What defines us? Are we defined by our personality? By our choices? Or are we defined by just random events and traits? Those are fair questions but I would tend to think that for each of us we can't be defined the same way as any other person. It's like the old adage "never judge a book by its cover" because until you open that book you can't make an accurate judgement and if you try to and you are wrong then you risk being judged yourself. Right?
